I WAS STURBBON MEHN...

Sometimes we ladies can be hard headed about issues of relationship especially when it's with someone we totally adore.
The bible says do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers but we often times think it only refers to people of a different faith. I can tell you as a matter of fact that you can be unequally yoked with someone from the same faith...when you are serious and on fire for the Lord and you find yourself in love or in a relationship with someone who is a “Christian” but won't give the things of God the time of day, you can readily see that that relationship is going nowhere.

Now here's my personal experience while I was in a similar kind of relationship. We dated on and off for 4years, we had eyes for each other, to people around us we were a match made in heaven. We did everything together (everything minus...ehen you know what), people were seriously rooting for us but as the relationship progressed, I started to have checks in my spirit. I was just growing spiritually, discovering things about myself I never thought existed. I was seriously enjoying my discussions with the Holy Spirit but  didn’t want to let bae go. He became a weight but i held onto him tightly, even played the role of the Holy Spirit several times in his life trying to get him to be 'serious' with God so that God would approve...hahah The first time I broke it off (we broke up three times), I was heartbroken, felt like someone close to me died. I struggled so much that when the opportunity to get back together presented itself, I jumped at it with open arms.

To cut a very tiresome story short, I had no peace but I allowed my feelings to cloud my judgement, I felt God will wait for me or pity me and allow me be with bae... The young man eventually broke it off with me, I just knew that it was the only way I could escape from myself. It took me a while to move on cos I thought I couldn’t live without him but I did.

So dearie, if God is telling you to leave that relationship please do because it’s really not worth it. God has your back and for me the Israelites had nothing on me in terms of stubbornness but I learnt the hard way.

P.S Because I left that one, God sent “The One” almost immediately, and we tying the knot very soon…yippee.

God bless you.

Kunmi