Hi great pips, happy new week, and I hope the month is ending on a good note. So we had to take a compulsory one week break from the series to re-energize. The week before last was power packed, back-to-back. Thank God for the writers who agreed to share their stories with us. The feed back have been really inspiring.
I remembered when Boo proposed, my world practically stopped for what looked like another lifetime. I was excited ( don't get me wrong), I just was not sure I wanted to marry...and No it was not about him, its just that the reality of marriage was beginning to set in and I wasn't sure I knew if I was ready...That's gist for another day (probably at the end of the week). So I went to Dad to let him know I had seen "The One" and he asked me one question that left me blank...I could not even attempt an answer- WHY DO YOU WANT TO GET MARRIED? I felt "...that's an unfair question to ask me, moreover, you are married nah, abi don't you want me to marry too...". In my head, I felt I was old enough, had seen the one, and just could not understand why I shouldn't want to marry... But beyond the defensiveness, all by myself, I knew I needed to answer this question truthfully.
The thing is, there are no right or wrong answers per se, as long as your reasons are not illegal or harmful or revengeful...ehen. However, I think that there are level to this- levels to the depth of your answer that will determine how well your marriage turns out and whether it lasts or not.
Meanwhile, this week is also special because i'll be featuring GUYS for the first time since the series begun...Yippee!
Have a splendid read this week and God bless your marriages and relationships!👊👊
CHIAGOZIEM
