First,
this assumes that I want to get married, but then, I do, so I guess its
appropriate. That said, we can go on with the why. The first time I
seriously thought about this was when Chichi told me her dad asked her
before she got married. I then gave it a thought and I'd be pretty
straight forward with this one.
In no particular order, my reasons are:
1)
I have the desire to marry. I know this doesn't sound deep and all, but
its the truth. Some people do not have the desire to be married, but I
do.
2)
I believe very strongly that the thousand I'm chasing now will be
multiplied to ten thousands when I marry my husband. Get me right, I am
fulfilling purpose as a single woman, and (not but), I know that there
will be greater yield when I'm doing destiny and purpose with my Mr.
3) It's God's will for me to marry.
4)
I want to raise a family and have my Godly kids and experience all that
comes with being a wife and a mother. I mean, it's gotta be great to
have kids that are a part of you.
5)
I want to be able to do life with my husband, be able to express myself
and feelings uninhibited, without fear nor holding back. Plus, I mean, I
get to have this one person I'm licensed to be able to annoy all my
life....and I can be annoying. Lol.
6)
I want to have and enjoy sex - yep! This is a reason for me- ain't
nobody gonna be forming too spiritual to admit this, besides, sex is
spiritual, but that's gist for another day. Seeing as I'm only permitted
to have sex with my husband, it's one sure reason I wanna be married.
I
could probably go on and on, but lets leave it here for now. And this
is what I'll say: I've not written these reasons to give anyone reasons
to get married. Rather, this is for you to ask yourself why you wanna be
married (if you wanna be married). Don't get married for other people's
reasons, it's never worth it, oh no, its not. And make sure your
reasons are substantial and not superficial.
Its
okay to wanna get married, especially in this world where people, Women
especially are forming baddo....its only NOT okay when you wanna do it for the
wrong reasons.
With that, I'll ask you, why do you wanna get married???
Its
been an awesome time sharing parts of my life with you guys, and I have
loved the feedback from the comments and some sent directly to Chichi.
Thanks Chichi for the opportunity to be a blessing, and thanks to
everyone that read.
God bless you.
Bologi.
