I AM BLESSED WITH MIRACLES

I tried my best to change the name , but nothing seemed to fit except this. At some point I wanted to stick to the name the way I received from aunty Chi, but "not every time man" didn't seem to click in my Spirit.  I even tried "its not all about him" still no umphhhh!!! Then as I started to write "warriors in heels" resounded in my very being; that's because the people that are involved directly and some indirectly have helped me become the person I am today. But that wasn't enough, then one night it hit me "I am blessed with miracles"  I too like deep long introduction, maybe in the next one, I will just cut to the chase, but for now manage with me... 😜😝😋

Let me start by saying, I love my husband to be. He is caring , amazing, nice, Patient and understanding BUT sometimes, he just doesn't understand; not because he doesn't want to but just because he doesn't understand. He hasn't experienced what I am talking about or his perspective is so different and very few times, he just doesn't want to understand (I believe its a man thing) and that is where my wonderful sisters come in.

They have been amazing, we did stupid things together in uni, we brought out the worst in each other and yes also the best in each other. Now we are growing each other, helping each other grow, crying together, praying together, advising each other, raising an army of warriors in heels ready to take on the devil, BUT even they sometimes don't understand not because they don't want to, but because sometimes we are experiencing the same issue at the same time, or they simply haven't experienced what I  am going through, that's where my big sis and older brothers come in.

 Not related by blood but they have become family. They have encouraged me to grow, they have expanded my views, made me think better and logically. They have been battered and thrown about by life but came out on top. They are there for me at any time, but sometimes even they don't understand, not because they don't wasn't to but just because they can't and that is where my mentors come in....

I want to say again, I love my baby but if I am to be the woman after God's heart (that i so desperately need to be). If I am to become the wife he wants me to be, the mother to the children he prayed for, the minister I am walking towards being, the sister I ought to be, the daughter I am instructed to be, the friend in need, the writer, then I would need to seek counsel first in God then in other men and women God has placed around me. The bible says in the counsel of the wise ......

 

Pedicure and manicure session is good with baby but sweeter and more interesting with my girls. Prayer is more than amazing with him, but there is something about when women come to pray. I can talk about law to him but talking law with a lawyer has its own zing. I can express myself as a writer, but a meeting with like minds develops you more. Baby is limited to what he knows and so are you, meaning both of you are limited in your ability to grow each other. One way to lift this limitation is by talking, interacting and having a relationship with other people. That is why God placed people, miracles around you to help you.

Yes I call them miracles because some people are just an answer to my un-prayed prayers. God just sends them and they usually help me in my time of need. One last thing, be weary of any relationship that tries to drag you away from family and friends, from the experience of others I have come to realize that they usually don't end well, you end up being lonely and frustrated.

 

BUNMI